I just read a list of ways to show love and I was inspired to write this description including suggestions of ways to carry out the suggestions on the list.
Ten ways to show citizen you love them:
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Listen without interrupting. (Proverbs 18) – When someone is speaking, the most loving thing we can do is listen. And, if we are truly listening, we are not thinking of how to reply or how to get our point across or request questions or saying anything. We are plainly listening to hear and understand what the someone is saying. So, the next time you are listening to someone, wait until the someone is finished and then respond.
Speak without accusing. (James 1:19) – We all have times with our partners, house members and friends when we disagree, feel disappointed, feel hurt or get angry. When someone accuses us of doing something, we can reply honestly, without blaming or accusing them, by moderately speaking from our own perceive including: how we felt, what we heard and how we responded. Whenever we accuse or blame someone, they feel defensive and transportation is blocked.
Give without sparing. (Proverbs 21:26) – A friend of mine recommend “Always succeed through on an impulse of generosity”. I love this idea and put it into custom as often as possible. Yesterday I was selling tote bags and jewelry at a Crafts Fair. A young woman, with two young children, was at a table next to mine. She came to see my jewelry and found a necklace she liked. She told me she would love the necklace by she works at a Child Care center and cannot wear jewelry to work. She went back to her table where she was selling things her students made so they could take the proceeds and buy holiday gifts for children who otherwise wouldn’t have them. I put the necklace she liked in a box and gave it to her and told her I would like her to have it. We were both very happy. At the end of the Crafts Fair, she came back to my table with a box, filled with goodies to make a gingerbread house and offered it to me. I appropriate her gift and agreed with her when she said “After all, it’s all about creating community.”
Pray without ceasing. (Colossians 1:9) At times in our lives when we feel overwhelmed, uninspired, exhausted or hopeless, the best we can do is to meditate or pray.
Answer without arguing. (Proverbs 17:1) Recently I received an email from a friend (Cindy) who told me she heard from a friend (Janet) who was upset because they had not gotten together for a long time. Janet has a relationship that is on again, off again and Cindy hears from her when the relationship is in the “off again” mode. Janet expects Cindy to be available when Janet wants to get together. Cindy loves Janet but feels Janet takes benefit of their friendship. Cindy wrote to Janet and expressed her feelings. Janet got defensive and argued her case. Cindy refused to enter into an seminar and although they didn’t come to an agreement, Cindy left the door open for additional communication. When two citizen argue, it is unlikely they will find a resolution.
Share without pretending. (Ephesians 4:15) Real sharing comes from the heart, without pretense of giving something because it is thinkable, or given with strings attached.
Enjoy without complaint. (Philippians 2:14) Real enjoyment comes when we are wholeheartedly in the gift moment. When we have a tendency to find fault with or complain about things, we stop ourselves from enjoying life.
Trust without wavering. (Corinthians 13:7) Many citizen grow up in situations where they learn not to trust people. This lack of trust can become a habit, a way of protecting ourselves, but it also interferes with closeness with others. When we are aware that we lack trust, it is prominent to make a resolution to learn to trust again, not blindly, but with wisdom and compassion for ourselves and others.
Forgive without punishing. (Colossians 3:13) citizen will disappoint us and we will forgive them and when we do, the forgiveness should come without conditions or punishment.
Promise without forgetting. (Proverbs 13:12) It is so prominent to succeed through with our promises so that we are trustworthy and dependable.
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